Have You Recently Made a Visit?

Hello everyone!

Please do not sleep on Downtown Columbus Ohio okay!! There’s beautiful parks, bicycles, scooters, and bars! So get out and enjoy Columbus!

This post is a little late. Trying to balance life and motherhood, things can get a little crazy sometimes. Soccer season is finally over, so you have me all to yourselves!

If you are looking for a nice quiet romantic walk with your man, homecoming, prom, or even ladies night, this is the scenery!

My husband planned a surprise visit for our anniversary a couple of months ago in August! It was everything in life and more!

He made my favorite mini sandwiches with turkey, ham, and cheese on Hawaiian buns. He also packed strawberries and wine! Let me tell you…that definitely made my night! Then he ended the night with a mini photo shoot of course which is located on my Instagram page. Feel free to visit anytime and follow if you like just by clicking the Instagram logo on my home page.


Is It Possible to Save in Las Vegas?

I am absolutely ecstatic to be able to share what I have experienced on my second trip in Las Vegas! This post will tell you how to save and have fun at the same damn time!


I would say this is the hardest category to save in! You will definitely spend some coins in this area unless your traveling by yourself or have already bought airline tickets in advance at the airport itself.When we normally travel, I prefer traveling by car. I am definitely a sucker for road trips! I love watching fields, animals, mountains, and even the clouds moving above. Traveling by car brings me peace, stillness, and balance which is something very hard to come by in my everyday lifestyle. I also love to stop at the rest areas to have a quick bite to eat and explore a little, read maps, or maybe even making a friend along the way.I do not have very much experience with flying but we chose Spirit Airlines for the first time. Needless to say, I do not think I will not be selecting the same airline again. The airplane was a little smaller than most and the pilot did not show up after waiting for about 45 minutes for the flight back home. So, a substitute pilot had to come in to replace the original one. For this reason, I’ll give Spirit Airlines a 3 out of 5 stars.

Just because it is less expensive, it may not always be the better choice.While traveling the strip, I would recommend using public transportation (bus) rather than using Uber or Lyft if you do not have a rental. This will save tremendous coins for you to utilize elsewhere. A 24 hour pass can cost between $16-$24 each. Please be aware, even with a rental valet parking can get very expensive too.

Food & Drinks

My favorite topic! This is also a very important topic because with so many temptations in Las Vegas. You may need to prioritize your expenses to make sure you get more bang for your buck!The best way to save in this area would be a time share. This can be offered in most hotels before or during your stay. Just by attending an event which is usually a tour of an establishment. The company will then offer free dinners and entertainment after the tour is completed. This is for tourists only.Do not forget! Before you decide to gamble to ask if free drinks are offered. Free drinks are not offered in all casinos! I would recommend wine or beer. Usually mixed drinks are watered down and you would have to drink more than usual to catch a nice buzz.

Over all, we enjoyed ourselves in Vegas! We hope this post helps you make a more informed decision when spending your cash while having fun with friends or family.

Are You Ready to Face your Fears?

Good day to you all! This is my very first post of 2019! Yayyy! I have some exciting news, that I can not wait to share! I have finally decided to commit to facing my fears one goal at a time!

I am so proud to announce that today is my 30 day milestone of being Smoke-free! So many things have changed with my body mentally, spiritually, and physically! This has been an absolutely extraordinary journey for me.

A few things I noticed about myself immediately is:

Skin – My skin became so much clearer. Having eczema I was constantly using skin cream to keep my breakouts at bay. Once I tossed the habit for good I recognized the difference.

Time – OMG! I have so much time on my hands, I have to think of things to do to keep my mind off smoking. I definitely have to keep myself occupied because it is an everyday struggle.

Energy – This was a drag at first. It was times I did not want to even get out the bed. As I tackled one day at a time, things became a bit easier. Now, my day starts early in the morning about 5-6 a.m.

Eating – I think about food so much now. I am not a breakfast eater but I have to eat something. My meals are a little heavier it seems so I have to be careful and stick to the gym!

Patience – I have none! I can be very short with my husband and kids. That is something I also need to work on. Sometimes I feel like my husband do stupid shit on purpose, just to get a reaction out of me. That is a whole story! He has stopped smoking as well and has different ways of coping which is the complete opposite.

I work very hard everyday not to smoke. I really don’t miss smoking at all. I believe it is only a mind thing. Although, I can say from experience that it’s easier said than done! Remember never give up on yourself, no matter how hard things may seem! What your perception is, may not be your actual reality.

Please stay tuned! I will also be posting my next goal soon: Going Back to school!

My Top 5 Things I Love to Hate About Xmas


Season greetings everyone!

This is my favorite time of year! However, there are a few things I could do without.

5. Hiding gifts from the kids OMG!!!

I swear no matter no matter how good I think I am with putting gifts in secret places, my kids suddenly become Inspector Gadgets and sniff out all my hiding spots.

4. My Husband

When did he turn in Nat King Cole? My honey keep singing Christmas songs, playing games, and baking cookies and shit. All I keep thinking is, “Where the hell is this man the other 364 days of the year”? I promise if he buys a Christmas sweater I’m going to scream!

3. Christmas Eve

 The kids won’t sleep, hubby keeps singing, and I still have gifts to wrap.

2.  5 o’clock who

Who said it was a rule that everyone in the house had to wake up so damn early. Why cant they sleep until noon?

1. I forgot the batteries

You would think of all the expensive shit I just bought, the least I could have done was buy batteries for all these damn toys. Now, the kids are mad because everything Santa got did not come with batteries.

These are just a few of the things I love to hate about Christmas.  I wouldn’t trade it for anything in the world. The laughter and smiles I see on my family’s face is priceless. 

Why Should I Be Devalued?

sad women Why do we always settle when we know we are worth so much more? Could it be that we have been treated as less than for way too long, that we do not appreciate our own true value? Maybe its a past relationship that has mind fucked us into believing that being second best is better than being last.  Maybe its because we always put our relationships and children first leaving very little for us.

I just have one question for you to answer. Do you enjoy being devalued?

I say hell no, fuck that! I want to be treated with the same respect and purpose that you do. I say give me the same raise you gave small dick Fred in accounting! Just because I wont let you rub my thigh on a business lunch doesn’t mean I do not deserve the promotion I earned.

Okay, maybe I had a long day at work or even a long work week, and seem to be irritable at times. That don’t mean you have to run to the first piece of ass…..talking about I ain’t giving you any attention. The fact is, I’m here taking care of our kids, cooking our meals, and washing your dirty ass clothes! Hell, if your lucky I might give you a little nookie, if you act right for once.

Ladies this is a call to arms. It is time for us to stand up for ourselves and let our voices be heard. “I am woman here me roar”!!! It’s time that we start putting ourselves first. We shouldn’t have to take a back seat to anyone anymore. IT IS OK!!!  At some point, you have to draw the line when you constantly sacrifice your happiness or your self-worth by pleasing others. You can still be a good mother, lover, and have a great career. We CAN have it all! So take it without any regrets!